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| The Doctor and His Patient by Jan Steen |
I have been showing an unbalanced view lately on my
blog. I have shown the highlights and
happy times from the past few months, and that is about all. Reality is, I’m exhausted and it took a lot
out of me to paint Adelaide’s kitchen, travel to Louisville, go to Will’s
graduation, and have a party for William. Life has been fun, but it has also been very hard.
Despite all of the fun and happy posts, most of you knew
that you were only seeing half of the picture. I love that I can’t fool you all!
Some of you have made comments to me about how much those things
must have cost me physically. One friend
told me that her reaction to the Lego party post was, “She must've been dead to
the world after making that cake & having a party." Haha! Yep, pretty much. I was so tired after the party that I fell
asleep before midnight, something I’m rarely able to do. I slept for 12 hours, and in the morning I still
had huge bags under my eyes. I looked so
bad that I actually laughed. I should
have taken a picture; it would have been perfect for this post!
Here is what has been going on physically the last few
months. This is the other half of the
picture that I haven’t been showing:
“I’m tired. I’m so
tired.” I have been saying that to Will a lot for the past three months. I had
hoped to improve more from my crash in the fall of 2010, but improvements
stopped coming as of sometime in September. Currently I’m functioning at about
half of where I was in the spring of 2010, meaning that I can physically do
about half of what I used to do each day. What used to be a good day is now
just a memory. What used to be an
average day is now a good day. And bad days happen more frequently than they
did 2 years ago. In short, I’m tired. Very tired.
I used to be a year-round competitive swimmer, and I
remember what hard training felt like. I remember the physical strength and
mental determination that it took to compete in a long race. Daily life is kind
of like that now. I know that probably sounds like a stretch, but that’s the
only thing I can think to compare it to. The simple task of heating up
leftovers for the children for supper leaves my body crying out for rest.
Physically it feels worse than exercise used to feel, and it takes just as much
mental determination. My muscles are constantly telling me “We can’t do this!”
and my brain is telling them, “You have to!” In everything I do now, my muscles
are crying out for rest. But even after
I rest, my body never feels truly rested.
I used to be somewhat comfortable when I was in bed resting.
It was easy to lie in bed. As strange as
it sounds, it’s not really easy to lie in bed anymore. My body is
uncomfortable. My muscles are uncomfortable, even when resting. I can feel the
lack of energy in my muscles, constantly reminding me that my body is slowly
growing weaker.
I have had to adjust to some new symptoms this fall. I have
involuntary muscle contractions now that happen while I am resting. Sometimes
they have been bad enough that my whole body shakes, leaving me exhausted. Mostly,
however, they are small movements that are just annoying.
I had quite a few bad flares with gastroparesis this fall. I
was throwing up a lot, which would leave me weak, tired, and dehydrated. The
bad flares of gastroparesis have subsided now. I was hoping that would allow
for more overall improvement in energy levels, but that hasn’t happened.
It has been hard to get used to “new normal” as we call it. I
had mostly gotten used to my “old normal” of not being able to cook and clean
and do the shopping. Now I have had to learn to adjust again, accept the energy
levels I have been given, and serve the Lord where He has placed me. This is
the life God has called me to, and He has a plan and a purpose even when I don’t
understand. I praise the Lord for
sustaining me during these challenging days, and I pray that somehow He will be
glorified through my life lived in weakness.
